My sweet three year old, big boy! You are changing so quickly in so many ways, but the one thing that remains the same is your sweet little heart. You are so sensitive and get your feelings hurt very easily. You hate to be in trouble and you are quick to say "SOWWY Mommy" through your tears so you can get out of "time out"! You have overcome several fears this summer, which makes me so happy! When you are so fearful that you sit on the sidelines and watch instead of participating, it breaks me heart. I am trying to understand that it just takes time for you to warm up and that sometimes you just don't want to be pushed. The sweetest thing about you is that you always want everyone to be happy. Tonight you fell off the couch, and Lilly laughed so hard that you went back and did it twenty times more, just to keep her laughing. You love when she wants to play with you, or when she needs your help. No matter what you're doing, if she needs you to help her with something, you almost always put it down and rush to her aid. When Lilly is really upset, you try and comfort her, "Lilly, ok? ok? It's alright, ok?" in the most high pitched comforting voice you can come up with. It melts my heart. In many ways you are vulnerable, and you need me, but you have learned to sit back and stay low key lately, because your sister has been so high maintenance. I feel like you are trying to help me out a little by demanding less attention, which only makes me want to give you more.
Your favorite things to do right now are play with your cars and trucks. We got you to start peeing on the potty by offering you a new hot wheels car every time you did it!! You love to play catch with Daddy too, and you're getting pretty good! You love to draw and color and you always want to show me what you colored. "Look mommy!" You are actually using your left hand to color, and even to eat. We think you're going to be left handed which makes us laugh, because when you were a tiny baby, your daddy would force you to reach for the rattle with your left hand by holding your right one, because he wants you to be a lefty (pitcher)- now that is hard core!!!
You have always blurted things out whether you say it perfectly or not, you want to try. You have always been so smart and so observant of everything around you, and you want to talk about everything you see. "Bocopter!" (Helicopter), School bus, boat, lake, "big twuck", "bocycle" (motorcycle), etc. You're so perceptive. One Saturday morning I was kissing you goodbye and I was holding my camera bag, on my way to a photoshoot. Daddy told you I was going to work and you said, "Mommy not going to work, Mommy going to take pictures!" How right you were.. :) You say your ABCs, count to 10, and sing tons of songs too! You are just about potty trained too, but you're a little farther behind Lilly- still haven't figured out the #2 thing. Almost there though!!
I've noticed that you like to watch for someone else to lead the way, and then you act when you are ready. One day you and Lilly were on the couch drawing and you always looked to see what she was drawing before you started. If I told you both to draw, say, a cat, Lilly would immediately start drawing something- anything- but you would always look over at Lilly's to see what she was doing first.
You're favorite thing to eat is EVERYTHING! You're like Mikey- you'll eat anything! You are my big growing boy (up to about 34 lbs!) and if you're awake, you're asking for food! Sometimes we hear you first thing in the morning on the monitor say "Animals Cracker, Mommy"! Every time someone walks into the kitchen for anything you say "SNACK!!". I'm not a good cook, but I know I can always count on you to at least take a few bites if I try something new!
My precious boy, you are definitely a Momma's boy right now. I know that one day you won't be so attached to me. You will think I'm dorky and you will stop giving me hugs and kisses all the time. You won't need me to kiss your boo-boos and wipe away your tears. But you'll always be MY sweet baby boy and hold a very special place in my heart. I'm so grateful to God that He chose me to be Lilly's and your Mommy. I love you!!